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I certainly understand why parents and youth leaders and pastors would want to teach that, even if it is, at best, a theological stretch: there’s the well-intentioned desire to protect those you love from hurt, and then the convenience of having fewer embarrassing or difficult conversations, less emotional fall-out to deal with.
But I also know the damaging effect that kind of thinking had on many of the young men my age – and on young women.
We Brits are, as a culture, a little skeptical of what we see as extremes. We went to the same church, the same mid-week Bible study group.As soon as a man and a woman were caught talking to each other at church, rumours would fly.Guys were terrified of asking girls out, because the instant a guy and a girl went out, she was presumed to be planning her wedding. I’d been deeply hurt at university by a guy whose dating philosophy, if you can dignify it with that label, was the opposite of Josh Harris’. I’d already had my teenage fun, my first snog and many subsequent ones.